Rita Rudaini Digantung Tak Bertali

Semalam semasa membaca BiPop, Abang Nara sangat tertarik dengan tulisan Raja Nurfatimah Mawar. Tak lain tak bukan tentang kemelut rumah tangga yang sedang dihadapi oleh Rita Rudaini. Izinkan Abang Nara berkongsi tulisanRaja untuk tatapan anda semua.  ~ anim cedok dari abg nara..~ 

Di bawah ialah nukilan Raja BiPop:-

Kasihan mengenangkan nasib aktres popular, Rita Rudaini Mokhtar. Beliau seolah-olah digantung tidak bertali suaminya yang juga pemain bola sepak kebangsaan, Mohd Aidil Zafuan Abdul Razak. Sehingga hari ini, masih belum ada kata putus berhubung rumah tangga mereka yang boleh diumpamakan retak menanti belah itu.

Sudah lebih sebulan Aidil meninggalkan Rita dan dua cahaya mata, Airit Rayyan, 3 dan Airit Qara Arjuna, 8 bulan. Lebih menyedihkan, Aidil langsung tidak pulang menjenguk anak-anaknya. Memberi nafkah jauh sekali.

Kalau Aidil ingatkan anak-anak, meskipun berdepan dengan gelora tsunami atau lautan api sekalipun, , beliau sanggup melakukan apa saja untuk melepaskan kerinduan pada anak-anak. Tidak begitu? Tapi, hingga saat dan detik ini, bayangan Aidil langsung tidak nampak, bukan Aidil tidak tahu anak-anak sentiasa berada di rumah.

Satu Malaysia sudah tahu, hubungan Aidil dan Rita sedia keruh atau mungkin tidak dapat diselamatkan lagi tetapi jangan sampai abaikan anak-anak. Kalau sekarang ketika belum bercerai, Aidil sudah pada Rayyan dan Qaqa, apatah lagi kalau ikatan sudah terlerai nanti.

Nasib baik Rayyan dan Qaqa tidak bertanya langsung pasal bapanya. Hmmm, nampak sangat Aidil tidak rapat dengan anak-anaknya. Mungkin kalau sudah berbulan tidak balik rumah, anak-anak pun sudah tidak kenal. Dan Raja nak tanya Aidil, dia tahu ke apa hukumnya jika meninggalkan isteri lebih tiga bulan?

Raja pelik, sebelum ini, Aidil beriya-iya nak buat tuntutan berhubung anak-anak, tapi nasib Rayyan dan Qaqa tidak terbela pun. Sakit pening, susu, makan dan minum pun tidak ambil tahu, macam mana tu? Pening kepala Raja memikirkannya.

Ada beberapa teman Raja sering ternampak Aidil melepak bersama kembarnya, Zaquan Adha dan isterinya Ayu Raudhah di USJ, Subang Jaya sampai awal pagi. Amboi seronoknya… Itu yang Aidil mahukan agaknya, menjadi orang bujang dan tidak memikirkan tanggungjawab, jauh sekali memikirkan anak-anak. Raja dengar Aidil juga tinggal bersama Zaquan dan Ayu di USJ.

Ayu pun bukan main lagi, selalu saja kemas kini statusnya menerusi perkhidmatan mesej Blackberry(BBM), makan malam, keluar sana sini bersama Aidil. Tak payahlah membuatkan orang lain makin membenci, sudah-sudahlah menyakitkan hati Rita. Janganlah memporak-perandakah rumah tangga Rita dan Aidil lagi. Nak makan atau tergolek sekalipun, perlu ke beritahu satu dunia?

Yang kasihan adalah Rita, selepas penat mencari rezeki dan bekerja siang dan malam di lokasi penggambaran, beliau terpaksa pula bersengkang mata menjaga anak-anak sendirian. Bukan tak tahu ragam anak-anak yang masih kecil, memang penat dan tidak cukup rehat.

Tapi, hairan juga Aidil dan keluarganya beriya-iya membuat tuntutan terhadap anak-anak. Kalau hari ini pun tak pernah ambil tahu dan tak tahu nak jaga, bagaimana nak jaga anak-anak pada masa depan? Ibu bapa mentua Rita pun tidak pernah bertanya soal cucu, tak pernah hubungi Rita bertanya pasal Rayaan dan Qaqa tapi sibuk rebut cucu!

Raja bukanlah nak salahkan Aidil, tapi Raja rasa tindakan Aidil tidak betul. Walaupun berdepan dengan konflik dalaman dengan Rita, tapi beliau tidak seharusnya mengabaikan tanggungjawab terhadap anak-anak. Nafkah anak-anak tidak seharusnya diabaikan. Aidil kena ingat, anak-anak adalah saham untuk akhirat.

Soal siapa yang menjadi dalang keretakan dan kehancuran rumah tangga Rita, Raja tidak mahu mengulas. Dulu, ibu bapa Aidil dipersalah, kini kembar Aidil, Zaquan dan isterinya, Ayu pula dituduh menjadi puncanya. Nampaknya semua sengketa bermula daripada keluarga Aidil. Susah nak cakap jika membiarkan orang lain membaut keputusan dalam hidup. Inilah jadinya.

Nasihat Raja kepada Aidil, kalau sudah benci dan tidak boleh memandang muka Rita lagi, lepaskan saja… Rita boleh hidup bahagia bersama dua cahaya mata yang menjadi pelengkap hidupnya. Aidil pula carilah kebahagiaan baru, kalau itu yang Aidil inginkan.

Kepada Raja, artikel anda kali ini memang terbaik. Abang Nara respek sangat-sangat. Semoga Aidil membaca artikel anda dan seterusnya terbit rasa keinsafan dalam dirinya

p/s :: cedok dari http://beautifulnara.com/

a touching story....

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

gedix gedix..

aha.. ni saje je la aku xde keje.. menggedix ngan anak buah tersayang.. SCHA... :p

Tahniah AIEN & HAIRIL

Ahad lepas aku ke kenduri aien dan hairil.

Aien cntik sangat dan Hairil, suaminya hensem.. sama cntik.. sama padan..

Tahniah dari kami.. semogo berbahagia hingga ke akhir hayat.